Dementia: ‘Know Thee Place Lad’

The words of the ‘Beast of Bolsover’ came to mind this morning when my neighbour said I could sit on the stairs and talk to her.  I needed some wise counsel and as as Kate used to be a head teacher I duly took my place.  I’d better set the record straight here: she was standing in the hall blow drying her hair at the time, prior to a lunch date.

Kate has a sharp mind on many issues and understands dementia from supporting her mum.  I needed to talk to someone about ‘Sleeping Beauty’s’ reluctance to move herself from the sofa.  We chatted as Kate put the finishing touches to her appearance.  She is always prepared to share her experiences after years of supporting her mother.

We concluded that this cold and damp spell was the problem, rather than Maureen.  As I said to Kate as I was leaving; only those who have a lunch date or a doctor’s appointment would venture out in this weather.

I can’t recall being put in the naughty corner when I was in Primary School.  Despite being retired for a while now Kate still knows where to put pupils when they are attention seeking: Dennis Skinner would have approved I’m sure!

 

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