Yesterday proved to be a difficult day.  Maureen got up much earlier than normal, and struggled for most of the day.  At times it was obvious she wasn’t sure who I was, and I was at a loss to know the best way to respond to her presentation.

She dozed for part of the morning and had another nap after lunch.  When she woke she tried to get outside via the patio door and then wondered where her car had gone.  Once she had seen that the car was still on the drive she retired to bed and closed the bedroom door .

I managed to have brief chat with Mel my Admiral Nurse during the afternoon.  I needed advice about the stash of things that Maureen had packed to go home.  My hunch about putting things back was supported and I duly unpacked.  As our conversation was interrupted by Maureen waking Mel left me a message later in the day encouraging me to take more rest

I had also had an EMail from Sue our Social worker earlier in the day in response to some concerns.   Sue’s response was very informative and supportive.  She also advised me to take more rest.

When I read of colleagues experience on Talking Point, the Alzheimer’s Society Web Site, I realise that I am very fortunate with the level of support I receive as a Care Partner.  Some poor souls have no access to an Admiral Nurse, and have very limited contact with social services.  This is just another occasion when I count my blessings that we live in an area where the services are well set up to help Maureen and I as we continue on our journey.

Footnote:  I intend to heed the advice of Mel and Sue to take more rest.  Today I have managed to stay in bed beyong 8 am: something I need to replicate on a daily basis.  I also think that one blog a day should suffice for any Care Partner: even me!